The One Thing You Must Do To Prevent Infidelity

I have never met a married person who wasn't interested in trying to prevent infidelity. Sure, there are some couples who believe you can spice up your marriage by having an affair. I will refrain from commenting on that preference out of respect of their rights as consenting adults.

Now, for those who want to prevent infidelity there are a few things that you can do to help keep your spouse from committing adultery. Some of these are probably a little extreme for some but if it helps just one person prevent infidelity I'm happy.

Make sure others know you are married. Yes, there shouldn't be anyone that's knows you or your spouse in any intimate way who also doesn't know that you are married. If you have wedding rings, why not challenge each other to where them 24/7. No need to take them off when you get to work right? How about putting up one or two photos at work of you and your spouse? Finally, make time to visit your spouse at work, at gym or other places. If you start to get to many folks saying "I had no idea he or she was married" be concerned.

Don't be evil. This is not directed to all of you but just a few. Some of us can be down right mean and nasty with our spouses. If your frustration gets too high and your marriage problems start to overwhelm you the dark side can begin to show its ugly head. Instead of doing loving things you might find yourself doing spiteful and annoying things. This will surely not create a marriage environment ripe to prevent infidelity. Don't give your spouse an excuse for having an affair.

OK, the one thing you must do to prevent infidelity is pay attention to your spouse. It's that simple but hard to do. It's important that you think about your spouse and that your spouse is thinking about you and not someone else.

You see although you may have to work long hours you still must make time to feed your spouses love bank. You have to pay attention to what your spouse is going through and recognize when he or she is sad, depressed, getting lonely, needs a hug or just someone to vent to. None of these needs are difficult to meet and in-fact can make all the difference in the world whether your spouse looks to you or someone else to fill these needs.

Make sure if you want to prevent infidelity you be the one who notices what your spouse needs. Your spouse will in most instances give you plenty of chances to recognize what he or she needs. Please pay attention and don't miss the signs if you really want to prevent infidelity.